Top 10 Things To Offer

I know the recipes with "10 Things To Do": to lose weight, to be happy, to find your partner, to be successful", and I don't believe they work to everybody.

But this is nothing about that kind of things. 

This is about YOU. 

So let's start.

When you decide to go in holiday, let's say in Barcelona :-), first thing you will check is "Top 10 things to do in Barcelona", isn't it? This will give you a pretty good idea of why you should go there, if you will like it and what options you have. 

Now, let's see. Holidays are those "most wanted" timeframes of the year, when we are doing what we really want. We don't have to reach any target, we don't have deadlines, we don't have to make money, but to spend :-). We have the relaxation, we are not tired, we can connect with ourselves, nature and the flow of the place we have chosen.  

That's why it's easy for us to select that place which we resonate with. When we are selecting by intuition or by liking what we see, when we create from heart our own list of "top things to do", we will never be disapointed. 

But, let's get back to the point. Have you ever ask yourself if you were a place and not a human, what would you like to be "Top10 things" others might do, see, visit. Which are the top "sites" of yourself? What would you like others to see in you, if they would choose to interact with you, instead of another person. 

What do you offer? Which are your best points? What makes you attractive to others? 

Are you beautiful? Are you rich? Are you famous? Are you smart? Are you the best in a field? Can you make creative connections? Are you joyful? Authentic? Original? Not original, but very functional? Are you energetic? Are you open-minded? Are you enlighted? 

All of us have at least 10 Amazing-Things-To-Offer. But often, life makes us to forget. 

And, like when we choose our holiday destination, based on the recommendation of a friend and not checking by ourselves, we sometimes listen what others think and say about us. And we become the perfect image of others about us. We stop asking ourself who we really are? What are the values we value the most? What are our dreams? What we became and how is that beautiful anyway? What makes us happy? 

There is a time to plan and a time to do. There is a time to grow and a time to be. 

It's good to stop sometimes and think, with all the love we can, looking only for the positive, what are the best "our things". Those that we love to do and they make other people feel good or add value to their lives. Those are our "highlights". The "best places for others to see". Those are our "points of interest".

After having the list, we may want to invest some time and effort to improve those points. They not only will makes us happier and more energetic, but also more attractive to the people who love the same things. 

One thought, though. Please double check each point of the list. They need to be authentic. Otherwise, who wants to spend his time just to see a fake?